Chapter 1: Observations on Today's Youth

"I can't believe how rude the kids in our area are," I remarked to my partner.

She raised an eyebrow at me.

"Really? What makes you say that?"

"None of them even look up as we pass by. I wonder if they're intimidated."

"Is it possible this has more to do with you?" she responded.

After moving into our trendy apartment over a year ago, we thought we made a great choice, not because of the vibrant nightlife but due to its ideal location for our commutes. However, as I began to engage with our neighbors, I quickly realized we had made a significant oversight: we were surrounded by young people.

As a 36-year-old, I recognize it might seem odd for me to categorize those around me as "kids." To bolster my "older" credentials, I grew up with an older sibling who acted like an elder even in his youth, I rarely indulge in alcohol, and I've had two back surgeries.

Nevertheless, I understand that young people need to enjoy themselves. And they certainly do! Almost every weekend, my parking spots are either occupied or blocked by crowds of bar-goers. The elevator frequently ends up sticky from spilled drinks, and more than once, I've encountered putrid food left in the recycling bin near the elevator.

Yet, what truly unsettles me about "the kids" is their peculiar social habit: they seldom make eye contact as they walk past.

"I don’t usually make eye contact either," my girlfriend noted, "it can send the wrong message."

After reading an article on the benefits of eye contact with strangers, which correlates with increased happiness, I've made an effort to at least nod or briefly glance at those I pass, conveying that universally understood greeting—an acknowledgment of each other's presence.

My concern isn't about craving more greetings (I promise). It's just that these youngsters, often with their Apple earbuds in, seem almost instinctively programmed to look straight ahead. Their stares possess a level of intensity akin to military focus. Research suggests that eye contact can drain mental energy, so perhaps they are merely conserving their mental resources for social media later? However, I suspect it's something deeper.

If I were a bookmaker in Vegas, I'd set the odds at 30 to 1 that a college student or young professional would acknowledge me as we cross paths. Such odds hint at a societal shift deeply imprinted on "the kids," and it's not warm and welcoming.

In my previous neighborhood, I used to take long walks through busy streets and familiar blocks. Over time, I recognized several local walkers: a man in flip-flops with his off-leash dog, a young chef trudging to work in the sweltering heat, and a potbellied guy in a cap and colorful shirts who I passed enough times for us to exchange friendly nods.

How well did we know each other?

Not deeply.

Just on a simple level.

A universal connection.

Hi.

Hello.

In the official music video "The Offspring - The Kids Aren't Alright," the narrative encapsulates the struggles and disconnect faced by today's youth. It reflects on the challenges of growing up and the lasting impact of societal issues.

Chapter 2: The Disconnect in Modern Interactions

The second video, "The Kids Aren't Alright," further explores the themes of youth disconnection and societal pressures, providing a poignant look at the emotional landscape of today's generation.