helencousins.com

Reflections on My Life and Family: Lessons from 2021

Written on

Chapter 1: A Year in Reflection

In my previous entry, I shared memories of my son James celebrating his 21st birthday back in 2008. This time, I want to take a moment to reflect on the events of 2021 and the lessons I learned throughout my journey in the footwear industry.

I started blogging in 2019 to document my life experiences and how my career has influenced my growth. Managing people and nurturing their development has significantly contributed to who I am today. Alongside my professional journey, the profound impact of my family has also shaped me. At 62, I find myself reminiscing about the loved ones I've lost, cherishing the beautiful moments we shared. It’s a challenge to encapsulate their essence in mere words, but I hope to honor them in this post.

Grandma Doris

Born in Mahaska, Kansas, on November 21, 1912, and passing away on September 2, 1999, in Fresno, California, my grandmother Doris instilled in me the joy of living. Often overshadowed by my grandfather, a master storyteller, she would sit in her recliner, offering a nod for truth or a shake of the head for exaggeration. Throughout my childhood and teenage years, she would invite me on monthly "dates" to dine at lovely restaurants like the Velvet Turtle, followed by a movie. I fondly remember our trip to see the original "True Grit" at the Country Squire Theater.

Her culinary skills were unparalleled; her homemade pies, including pumpkin, apple, and lemon meringue, remain unmatched. During holidays, her kitchen overflowed with delightful dishes, including a jello dessert topped with cream cheese and walnuts, which I still attempt to recreate. Grandma Doris was genuinely interested in my life, sharing her own adventures from her days as a nurse. Sadly, around age 87, her health declined, and during a visit, I experienced a fleeting moment of connection before she passed while we were in Southern California.

Grandpa Bill "Doc" Osterholtz

My grandfather, William "Doc" Osterholtz, was born on February 2, 1914, in St. Louis, Missouri, and passed away on January 26, 2010, in Fresno, California. His birthday, coinciding with Groundhog Day, was always easy to remember. He often shared warm memories of his affectionate father and his early experiences as a veterinarian. During his time in the army, he met my grandmother Doris at a dance, and their quick marriage followed shortly.

After graduating from veterinary school, he tested cattle for tuberculosis and shared many entertaining stories of his experiences, including an amusing incident involving a bull chase. He was dedicated to his family, and I remember the holidays filled with joy, particularly the special red vests we wore together. Our time in the garage fixing cars created a strong bond between us, filled with laughter and wisdom. I cherish those conversations, especially as we navigated life's complexities.

Uncle Gary & Aunt Brenda Osterholtz

My uncle Gary served in the Air Force and lived in Texas, limiting our visits but making our time together all the more special. His adventurous tales of military life and fast cars inspired me deeply. I admired his dedication to his country, and he was loved by all, including his wife, Aunt Brenda.

Grandpa Bill Normart

Born on July 20, 1910, my grandfather, William Normart, often recounted stories from his childhood, including adventures at his father's firehouse. His work ethic and resilience were evident in his journey from a young boy to a skilled machinist and businessman. Our summer trips to their cabin at Huntington Lake are some of my fondest memories, where he taught me invaluable life skills.

Grandma "Si" Servart

Born on January 4, 1914, Grandma Si created a nurturing environment, making each grandchild feel unique. Her culinary prowess, especially in Armenian cuisine, left a lasting impression on me. She was a source of comfort and wisdom, always offering love and support, even when life got tough. Our weekly conversations were a highlight, providing guidance and encouragement.

My Dad, William Normart Jr.

My father, William "Bill" Normart Jr., left this world on October 10, 2015, and his absence still resonates deeply with me. He taught me the value of hard work, dedication, and the importance of family. Our time spent fishing and discussing life lessons shaped my character. Even in his frugality, he had a great sense of humor, always making life enjoyable.

My Uncle Joe Garvin

Uncle Joe was a gentle giant whose love for the outdoors and barbecuing made every family gathering special. His passion for cooking and knack for teaching me the intricacies of barbecuing left a lasting legacy. He exemplified the importance of hard work and dedication, and I carry those lessons with me.

Aunt Linda Garvin

Aunt Linda's warmth and kindness made her a cherished figure in my life. Her ability to connect with others effortlessly taught me the value of empathy and compassion. I am grateful for her constant support and the delicious meals she creates, reminding me of our rich family traditions.

Lessons from the Pandemic

The past few years, particularly during the pandemic, have been a period of immense change. We've faced challenges that have tested our resilience and altered our lives in unexpected ways. Reflection has become a vital tool for reconnecting with ourselves and those we hold dear. I am grateful for my family and friends, and I recognize the importance of expressing love and appreciation for them.

In Conclusion

As I reflect on the influencers in my life, I realize that the memories and lessons shared with them have greatly contributed to my growth. I am fortunate to have a large, loving family and meaningful friendships. Life is fleeting, and it’s crucial to let those who matter know how special they are. Cherishing memories, both good and bad, has helped shape me into who I am today.

This video reflects on my life during the pandemic years of 2020 and 2021, capturing the essence of resilience and adaptation in challenging times.

In this video, I discuss my New Year planning process while reflecting on the lessons learned from 2021 and how they shape my goals for the future.

Share the page:

Twitter Facebook Reddit LinkIn

-----------------------

Recent Post:

Exploring Wefunder: The Pioneering Equity Crowdfunding Platform

Discover Wefunder, the first U.S. equity crowdfunding platform, its legitimacy, pros, and cons for investors.

How Public Learning Can Transform Your Life in 30 Minutes Daily

Discover how dedicating just 30 minutes a day to learning in public can enhance your career and relationships.

# The Financial Risks of Poor Math Skills Explained

Poor math skills can lead to significant financial losses. This article explores real-life examples and emphasizes the importance of numeracy.