Chapter 1: The Allure of Entrepreneurship

Self-employment, freelance work, and launching a business have always been passions of mine. As a child, I quickly realized that the conventional 9-to-5 lifestyle wasn't for me. I often joked that such a routine would lead to my demise. My experiences with traditional jobs revealed numerous health issues, making it clear that this path wasn't suitable for me.

My family members from older generations supported my entrepreneurial aspirations. They believed that to achieve financial success, one either needed a college degree leading to a stable job or should start their own business. The latter was often viewed as the key to wealth.

Growing up, I held a naive belief that business owners were wealthy individuals who enjoyed a life of leisure, free to make their own choices. They always appeared to be thriving, discussing vacations and successful ventures. However, my own journey into self-employment shattered that illusion, revealing the unseen challenges and realities that come with running a business.

Chapter 2: Lessons Learned in the Field

As I embarked on my entrepreneurial journey with Light Wolf Energy, I encountered numerous unexpected challenges. One significant hurdle was the overwhelming number of tasks that came with running a business. From setting up a website to managing bookings, I quickly discovered that I was in over my head.

The technology aspect was particularly daunting. I had never created a web page or a booking system before, and I found myself struggling to get started. Ultimately, I had to seek assistance from someone more skilled in that area. This experience taught me the importance of outsourcing tasks when necessary, as well as the need to find reliable people to collaborate with.

Managing time became crucial as I juggled client needs while also working full-time as a Registered Massage Therapist. It was a steep learning curve, navigating various platforms like Canva, Microsoft, Zoom, Instagram, and Facebook. Fortunately, being a Millennial, I was able to adapt to new technology, albeit with some trial and error. Thank goodness for YouTube!

I suddenly found myself wearing multiple hats: accountant, manager, tech support, customer service representative, and more. My workload expanded significantly, leaving me feeling overwhelmed. I also had to pay attention to branding and marketing to attract clients, which added to my already full plate.

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Chapter 3: The Reality of Support Systems

Family and personal life often faced new challenges due to my self-employment. Initially, I received enthusiastic messages from friends and family, eager to support my new venture. However, when it came time for actual bookings, the reality was disappointing. The number of people who followed through was minimal.

It became evident that those closest to me were often my least reliable clients. Many would request discounts, and I faced pressure to accommodate these requests. If I had given in to every demand, I would have found myself financially strained and unable to serve paying clients.

I came across a quote that resonated deeply with me: "Do not cancel your business because people you know do not support you. The world is full of strangers rooting for you." This statement has proven to be true throughout my years in self-employment. My most loyal clients have often been complete strangers who have become like family through our work together.

Balancing work and personal life was another challenge, as my commitment to my business often led to conflicts with family and friends. They would express feelings of neglect, questioning my dedication to them. These statements were painful, as I genuinely valued my relationships but was consumed with building something I loved.

Finding equilibrium between work and personal life is essential, and it requires understanding from both sides. It’s easy to fall into a tunnel vision mindset when pursuing a passion, but having supportive individuals around you is invaluable.

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Chapter 4: Embracing the Ups and Downs

In my line of work, I have learned that there will be both high and low seasons. Some months are exceptionally fruitful, while others can be quite challenging. It’s vital to manage finances wisely during lean periods, as there are no traditional benefits like health insurance or retirement contributions to rely on.

I have faced months where unexpected expenses arose, requiring me to replace essential equipment and materials all at once. Being adaptable and prepared for fluctuations is crucial in self-employment.

Despite the challenges, my journey has been incredibly rewarding. I am passionate about building a legacy that positively impacts others. Through my experiences, I've gained insight into the realities faced by entrepreneurs. The hard work often happens behind the scenes, and the sacrifices made for success are not always visible.

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