You Don't Want to Retire; You Want to Live a Life You Adore
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Embracing Life Beyond the 40-Hour Work Week
The notion of postponing enjoyment until retirement is disheartening. I understand the challenges of work and the complexities of human interactions; they can be overwhelming. However, the idea that we must adhere to a singular way of living until we reach retirement is troubling.
A Glimpse into Reality
Recently, I stumbled upon a Twitter discussion where a 61-year-old shared their concern about not being able to afford rent even after retirement. This was an eye-opener. Further scrolling revealed someone stating they might not retire until the age of 80. It's alarming to consider these realities.
We’re All Exhausted at 25
At just 25, many of us already feel drained. I remember starting my first job at 22, often struggling to stay awake on my commute home. The demanding hours and long drives left me fatigued. Unfortunately, university doesn't equip you for the harsh realities of the working world, resulting in a rude awakening for many young adults.
Shifting Your Perspective
The truth is, working is essential for financial survival. Once you accept this reality, you can start to view your job as an opportunity rather than a burden. Some roles can drain your energy by mid-morning, while others can be rewarding. It’s possible to find enjoyment in your 9-to-5 and even look forward to it.
Good Jobs Come with Challenges
I reflect on job satisfaction regularly, and my insight is simple: every good job will have its off days. Just as relationships experience ups and downs, so do careers. The key is recognizing when the bad days outnumber the good ones. To gauge your job satisfaction, consider what you seek in a position—be it financial rewards, advancement, or personal fulfillment—and evaluate how often you achieve these goals.
Living in the Moment
At 28, I’ve become acutely aware of life’s brevity. This realization has prompted me to list activities I want to pursue now rather than waiting for retirement. My current list includes:
- Taking long walks with my dog in the Peak District to explore new trails.
- Improving my fitness and establishing a running routine to alleviate stress.
- Starting an online writing journey to share my thoughts.
For too long, I postponed these aspirations, believing I would tackle them when retired. Recently, I made a significant decision to relocate 170 miles for a fresh start—because life is too short to wait. When contemplating what you desire to do, ask yourself: why not now? While a lengthy world trip may not be feasible, you can certainly plan a UK road trip in a camper.
Don’t Wait for the Weekend
Hearing someone say, "Only a few days until the weekend," used to frustrate me. That mindset is detrimental; life is meant to be lived now, not just during weekends or in retirement. If you have dreams you wish to pursue, take charge. Write them down and take actionable steps.
- If you dream of coastal travel, start planning.
- If teaching is on your mind, begin your research.
- If writing online excites you, start typing.
Waiting for retirement is akin to relying on someone else to change your life—they won’t. Everyone is preoccupied with their own journeys. Life is unfolding in the present moment; don’t let it slip away.
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This article is intended for informational purposes only and should not be interpreted as financial or legal advice. Always consult a financial expert before making significant financial decisions.
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