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# Embracing Equality: Stoic Insights on Leadership and Service

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Chapter 1: The Nature of True Leadership

It is a profound injustice to treat someone as inferior simply because they fulfill a role that serves you. This mindset reveals a deep-seated cruelty.

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Section 1.1: The Reflection of Character

You can gauge a person's true nature by observing how they interact with others, regardless of their social standing. When colleagues dismiss someone with the phrase, "That's just an employee," it's worth questioning: aren't we all engaged in some form of service?

“Servant!” they may exclaim. But aren't we all beholden to various masters in our lives? “Stranger!” they might add. Yet, aren’t they simply someone we have yet to meet?

Consider how often we treat those we know little about—who have done us no wrong—worse than those we know well, who may have given us ample reasons to complain.

I previously mentioned that your social standing does not prevent you from becoming a philosopher. Why, then, does an elevated status act as a barrier for many in showing kindness to others?

We are all familiar with the executive who rushes from their chauffeur-driven vehicle to a private elevator awaiting them on the ground floor. A cadre of loyal aides is always nearby, showering them with flattery before they retreat to the executive dining area for a lavish meal. If they require a moment of respite afterward, they retire to their personal restrooms for a private reprieve.

These leaders often perceive their position as isolating, believing that their unique burdens are beyond the comprehension of others. Yet, they remain oblivious to the multitude of underlings who facilitate their daily lives:

Who transported them from their grand estate to their office? Who ensured the lobby was tidy and the elevator doors were ready? Who keeps the printers stocked and the waste bins emptied?

Does the gourmet meal listed on the day's menu magically appear without the assistance of dedicated staff?

I suspect that a boss who avoids frequent engagement with lower-level employees fears that such interactions would highlight how minimal their differences truly are.

Instead, they choose to surround themselves with symbols of their status, reinforcing a superficial distinction that lacks genuine substance. If only they paused to reflect on the implications of this mindset, they might reconsider their approach.

Section 1.2: The Fallacy of Superiority

What does elevating one person over another truly accomplish? Does it enhance their ability to hear, see, or think clearly?

Those in lower positions can often detect the slightest insincerity from their superiors, while those at the top often close themselves off to the realities around them.

The most tragic figure is not the boss who ignores their surroundings but rather the one who deludes themselves into thinking their status has made them superior.

Even if they struggle with basic tasks, they excel at gauging their standing on the social ladder.

There is nothing more disheartening than a boss who belittles their secretary while groveling to board members about compensation.

To treat someone as lesser simply because they serve you is an act of true cruelty. However, to do so out of ignorance of their intrinsic worth is an even greater insult to your own character.

What kind of person evaluates a colleague based on their designer suit or luxury watch while dismissing another for lacking such trappings?

I caution you, Deuteros, not to fall into this category.

Chapter 2: The Illusion of Status

You may encounter this type of individual outside their professional realm, still displaying their entitled demeanor. They might cut to the front of a security line, declaring, "Don't you know who I am?"

This statement is not a question; rather, it demands an apology for any perceived delay. Yet, what remains unspoken from those nearby is: “I know exactly who you are, and you are a fool.”

This self-important individual is often tolerated only because they are willing to part with their money.

When you receive lavish welcomes in exclusive boutiques, ponder whether it is your persona or your wealth that is being courted.

True value cannot be quantified by monetary means. People should not be judged based on their external appearances.

A boss who prioritizes wealth and superficiality may experience short-term gains but is destined to fade into obscurity. They may retire to luxurious golf courses, yet their absence will go unnoticed.

Though their gated communities may serve as barriers to the less fortunate, they remain filled with those of questionable merit.

Take care.

Read the next installment in this series. Explore the overview of the Stoic Letters.

Wouldn’t it be wise for you to subscribe to all my narratives?

The first video titled "Master the Art of Control: Stoic Wisdom Revealed!" explores the principles of self-mastery and the transformative power of Stoic philosophy.

The second video, "Don't Fall into the Trap of Thinking All Lies Are the Same," offers wisdom on discernment and the pitfalls of deception in everyday life.

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