Harnessing the Power of Influence: Problem vs. Solution
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Chapter 1: Are You Being Influenced?
Aloha! Today, I pose a thought-provoking question: Are you influenced by your problems or by the solutions available to you? Many individuals seek coaching to advance their goals, yet often find themselves trapped in a mindset that fixates on past failures. It’s essential to recognize this pattern and liberate oneself from it.
When we become overly concentrated on previous setbacks, we can become paralyzed by fear, worrying that efforts to pursue our dreams will lead to the same disappointments as before. This fear keeps us under the sway of our past experiences rather than empowering us to embrace solutions and aspirations.
In discussions about manifestation and the law of attraction, it’s important to remember that this law is perpetually at work. We are continually manifesting, so understanding our thoughts and feelings is crucial. These aspects dictate whether we are aligned with our problems or our visions for the future.
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Section 1.1: Shifting Your Focus
When aiming high and setting goals, it's natural to feel doubt. Thoughts like "How will I achieve that?" or "It didn’t work out before" can easily creep in. While these doubts are real, they do not reflect your true potential.
As you visualize your goals, remind yourself that your past does not define your future. The moment you commit to pursuing a vision, you align yourself with it, and it becomes your truth. Staying in this positive mindset is essential for progress.
Subsection 1.1.1: The Importance of Visualization
Section 1.2: The Role of Emotion in Manifestation
Imagine what it feels like to have your desires fulfilled. For instance, if you seek a fulfilling relationship, rather than fixating on what has not worked before, immerse yourself in the feelings of love and contentment that such a relationship would bring. Write down these feelings and revisit them often to reinforce this vision.
Chapter 2: Creating Freedom in Your Life
Many individuals I encounter express a desire for freedom—be it financial or time-related. They often feel overwhelmed by obligations, leading to a sense of scarcity. However, freedom can be cultivated in the present moment. By generating feelings of freedom now, you can attract the opportunities you desire.
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Your thoughts directly shape your feelings. Imagination is a divine gift that should not be dismissed. Although society often discourages daydreaming, it is essential for creativity and manifestation. Everything begins in the mind before it becomes tangible in the world.
As you work on yourself and elevate your vibration, you will draw in everything that resonates with your energy. This includes relationships, opportunities, and even unexpected financial gains. Choosing to focus on your dreams daily allows you to live under the influence of what you truly desire, rather than being constrained by past experiences.
You cannot alter the past, but you can shape your present to create a brighter future. Cultivating a mindset of gratitude and fulfillment now is crucial to living under the influence of your aspirations. Remember, we are all powerful manifesters; it’s about consciously directing that power towards what you truly want.
About Laura Noel
Laura Noel is a Lean Six Sigma Blackbelt and certified coach with the Proctor Gallagher Institute. With over 27 years of experience in personal growth and leadership, she aims to empower individuals and organizations to realize their potential. Laura's journey has been enriched by her military service and mentorship from renowned success coach Bob Proctor. She is dedicated to helping clients explore new possibilities and lead abundant lives.